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Point noted, but still I would only kill the adopters if they were some kind of human traffickers… who had smuggled or kidnapped me. Adoption may not be permited by religion but not taking care of a child is a bigger crime.
I cant even allow an enemies child to be left to starve and while it might grow up to oppose me, I would neverthless take the child to care until its waris could be found.
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Point noted, but still I would only kill the adopters if they were some kind of human traffickers... who had smuggled or kidnapped me. Adoption may not be permited by religion but not taking care of a child is a bigger crime.
I cant even allow an enemies child to be left to starve and while it might grow up to oppose me, I would neverthless take the child to care until its waris could be found.
vaise, i dunno if you noticed it or NOT...i was just joking! :D
vaise, kisii bachche kii kifaalat karnaa kaar e sawaab hai magar usko apnaa naam denaa yaa usko apnii viraasat denaa man'a hai aur isii liye adoption man'a hai Islam meN kiuN k isse Haqeeqii bachchoN kii Haq-talafii hotii hai...apnii zindagii meN agar koii chaahe to bachche ko jo chaahe de de magar uske liye vasiiyat karnaa yaa uske ba'd uskii jaayedaad meN Hissa lagaanaa naa-jaaiz hai. Islam strikes a balance here!
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btw, in Islam, adoption is NOT permitted!
where is this written ?
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kyon…
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where is this written ?
yeh kisii aalim se poochho kiuN k agar maiN ne kuchh kahaa to tum phir mujh se sanad maangogii jo mere paas nahiiN...meraa room koii kutub Khaana nahiiN :D
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becuz kisi yateem ka khyal rakhna is good
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Islam khayal rakhne aur parvarish ke khilaf nahi hai.....bus as a father usko apna naam nahi de sakte hain..............:)
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Islam khayal rakhne aur parvarish ke khilaf nahi hai.....bus as a father usko apna naam nahi de sakte hain..............:)
haan wo i know k name nahi de sakte but tht doesnt mean one cant adopt
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becuz kisi yateem ka khyal rakhna is good
yeh maiN ne kab kahaa k aisaa nahiiN hai? Islam meN jaisa k maiN ne oopar kahaa vo is liye k Islam wants to protect the rights of the sons and daughters. you can raise a child ...no problem!!! but, you can NOT give him/her your name and/or leave a will to give him/her the inheritance. you can NOT do 'LEGAL" adoption as it is done in the west which makes the child as your own and he inherits all the rights as extended to a real somn/daughter.
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Yes one can adopt and take care of that child but cannt give him name..........:D
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You can definitely become a "foster" parent to an orphan (which is big Sawab), but you cannot legally "adopt" and give that child your name, like others have pointed out, because of inheritance laws and mehram/na mehram standings if there are other biological children involved.
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I mixed adopting and being Foster parents as one 
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I know I'm not adopted cause my sister and I look too much like my dad and his siblings. There is evidence of me being born to my mom. Photographs of her knocked up around the time of my birth. I'm not ADOPTED.
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I had no idea adoption was prohibited… Learn something new every day.
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It is permitted. The Prophet (SAW) did adopt Zaid (RA). That being said, there is a difference between the actual child of the parents and an adopted one.
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It is permitted. The Prophet (SAW) did adopt Zaid (RA). That being said, there is a difference between the actual child of the parents and an adopted one.
EXACTLY...that proves my point! Prophet [SAWS] marrioed Zaid's [r.a] EX [after divorce] to prove that the adopted child is NOT his son...there was parda observed between ummahaat ul momimeen and Zaid [r.a.]...Allah ordered Prophet [SAWS] to marry Zaid's divorced wife to DISPEL this notion. this marriage was to show the to the ummat that adoption in Islam is NOT permitted!
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It is permitted. The Prophet (SAW) did adopt Zaid (RA). That being said, there is a difference between the actual child of the parents and an adopted one.
In Islam, the concept of "Kafala", which means "sponsorship" literally, is often confused with adoption. Islam allows **foster parenting, **as demonstrated by the beloved Prophet Mohamnad SAWS, when he freed Zaid from slavery and provided for him financially, spirituals, emotionally as you would a "son". However, the conventional definition of "adoption", where an orphan is taken as the biological child of the couple, and given the family name and included in inheritance and such is strictly forbidden.
It's all about semantics I guess, and greatly depends on the law of the land you live in (Muslim country vs non Muslim country).
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Adoption is the ultimate in humanity -
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Honest to god, everytime I read this thread title, I start singing City High's 'What would you do' in my head.
Someone needs to make a new thread about what they would do if their child was at home crying all night...
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In Islam, the concept of "Kafala", which means "sponsorship" literally, is often confused with adoption. Islam allows **foster parenting, **as demonstrated by the beloved Prophet Mohamnad SAWS, when he freed Zaid from slavery and provided for him financially, spirituals, emotionally as you would a "son". However, the conventional definition of "adoption", where an orphan is taken as the biological child of the couple, and given the family name and included in inheritance and such is strictly forbidden.
It's all about semantics I guess, and greatly depends on the law of the land you live in (Muslim country vs non Muslim country).
It looks like we're saying the same thing. When I said that there are differences between a biological child and an adoptive one, that includes the inheritance, family name and even the mehram issues.