What would you do?

[Sara516]

Re: What would you do?

@Niksik

So a friend calls you and invites you for dinner with a lot of love and saying things like, “I want all my friends to be there that night, it will be an honor to have you and your family eat with us.”

BUT

1. You know your husband doesn’t particularly like her husband.
2. Your husband HATES dinner invitations because he hates eating out and hates it that desis are perpetually late and this particular family is ALWAYS late at other peoples home so chances are they’d be late even in their own home.

She asks you to confirm. You say no, you have to check with husband first. She says, “I will not take ‘no’ for an answer.”

Do you call in a couple of days and lie that you’re out of town or something like that?

If the wife wants to go but husband doesnt…why doesnt wife just go with kids?