X and Y fell in love, told their parents, got engaged and are now waiting to be married next year. Everything was perfect until one day they had some small argument and Y told his mother about it. Y complained to his mother saying that X always fights with him and Y also told his mother of all their past arguments/fights. Y’s mother told Y to add X in a conference call with them. Y’s mother then gave X a lecture on how X should behave with her son. Y’s mother told X that she wouldn’t allow X and Y’s marriage if X did not change herself. Y’s mother gave X two months to change and said that she will only give the date for the marriage if she sees that X has made some progress in those two months. X just listened quietly to Y complaining and Y’s mother lecturing and at the end just said jee jee to everything and left the conference call. Now X wants to break things off with Y because X feels embarrassed and insulted and thinks that Y brought his mother between X and Y’s relationship. Y, however, has told X that he was angry when his mother called so he vented infront of his mother. Y has asked X to forgive him and wants things to be normal between them again. X is just worried that if she marries Y, then Y may do the same thing again in the future.
He definitely will do the same thing after marriage. He sounds like a mama's boy. It's up to her if she can tolerate that kind of behavior after marriage, BUT this shouldn't be the only factor for her breaking up the engagement.
Depends on how his mother discussed all this with the girl. If she was really bossy then i would be really concerned but if she only tried to intervene as a friend and guide then i would take it supportingly.
Hard to say more without knowing more about the people involved in this scene.
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Oh come on, it's about my friend and I don't want to take her name. Her fiance kept calling her when we were having lunch yesterday and she kept ignoring his calls so I had to ask what was up and she told me and I did not know what to say so I asked you guys. I don't know how his mother talked to her Maham. She just sounded extremely offended and upset over it so maybe his mother did act bossy ...
spoko, I think people will get a better picture if you just used fake names. Thats all.
Personally, I would be very wary of this relationship. You cannot get your parents involved in your fights as a couple - its just wrong on every level. I cannot imagine what I would do if my fiance did something like that. To say the least, I would be very upset and might not be able to trust him for a while.
I do not think its a good enough reason to break off the engagement. I DO think both boy and girl need to talk and work on this issue. It is a recipe for disaster and a lot of resentment later on.
believe me people.......this is the most frequent answer...
this should be the default 2nd post to every question..
P.S.......The girl loved the guy and decided to marry......if she love the guy she should know what kind of a guy he is.......and if she is in doubt.....just plain answer " LEAVE THE GUY'
