What would you do...?!

[Being_Human]

Re: What would you do…?!

@redrose1

Suppose..there’s a guy who wants to marry you but his mother doesn’t approve of this and doesn’t like you simply but somehow,upon being persistent, the guy makes the mother approve of and accept you and agrees to make him get married to you but you know that she is a very strict,stubborn type of a lady who could become a ‘zalim’ mother-in-law, and after the marriage you would have to live with her under the same roof.In such a case, would you marry this guy?You can’t really live separately from her only with your husband because he is the only one she has so, in such a case, what would you do?Should you marry the guy?Or should you just leave him because his mother can make your life hell.What would you do?

I am not the one in love SO my answer may not make much sense but i wouldnt go ahead with such a relationship. Because for me marriage is not getting together of two people only (i.e the husband and the wife) but its about two families getting together and accepting each other in their lives. So in such a case that wouldnt be possible. For my love, i would definately do my best to figure out why his mother doesnt like me and if possible have a heart to heart with her and clear out any misunderstanding there may be. If it doesnt even work out then, i wl have no option to backout. I wouldnt want any guy to leave his parents or family for me even if he was willing because if he can leave his family for me, i am sure later on he can leave me for somebody else too Just my two cents.