You know dudette, if I was a girl, I would not marry him. I said it somehwere that after forcing a love marriage on their mothers and getting an approval (especially when there was an initial resistance by his mother like in above case), guys go into a sudden guilt trip right after marriage and not only become submissive to their moms, but expect wife to do that to. This is where girls come back and say, oh before marriage he was so much in love with me and now he does not even care about me.