my grandmother made my mom’s life hell, and my mom told us time and time again it’s all worth it bc of the love she and my dad has for each other. It did cause lots of issues at times but overall. however she advises us it’s not worth signing up for because in her case her mother in law was overseas until i was about 6…so they had 8 years to live alone as a married couple and bond. if you have to move in right away with a mother in law that hates you chances are she’ll eventually see to it that you are miserable and ask for a divorce. a man will almost always take his mother’s side over his bride’s that’s just life.