These are your personal preferences, maybe because you are not in Pakistan.
People living abroad may have changed their preferences due to limited options, but not in pakistan.
I was responding to your statement “women no longer need financial support from men”. I really wish this becomes true in our culture, but sadly this is not. And that’s a fact.
In Pakistan, the first qualification in a potential bachelor is his financial status/salary. And if salary is not good enough, then comes degree which is a proof of a future potential. Then comes everything else.