Ummmmm…those are not the qualifications I look for in a man and neither do my parents. You only got ONE right out of three…not lookin’ good for ya buddy.
Here is what we look for:
Character
Degree/Education
Sense of Responsibility/Zimmidaar
His financial status doesnt really mean much to me if his ego is too big to fit through the door. His salary doesnt mean much to me because I can support myself. I’ll be happy living an average lifestyle for the rest of my life and prefer that over having oodles of money and misery.
Unless he improves the quality of my life in a way that I cannot alone…I dont see the need for keeping a man around simply for financial stability. Its too much work for something I can manange well on my own Alhumdulillah. He should make me a better person, help me look at things from a different perspective, compliment my flaws and vice versa. We should be able to joke around, laugh, have fun and make each other happy. Thats what is really important. Yes, money helps a lot. No argument there. However, is it the reason one should marry and stay married? No…that would be miserable and a fate I would dread.