But I think it gets stronger after birth.. and with time too.
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*Originally posted by Chandbeti: *
I know what you are saying is right. It would be a really hard decision for the parents to make( especially the mother). But I think they would suffer more if they give birth to the child and witness all the hardships the child has to face in his life and most probably the death too( most children born with abnormalities*mental mostly* die at a younger age). Once you give birth you are naturally going to be more in love and attached to the child.. so seeing him/her die or suffer after years of the birth would be horrendous.
And I think the quality of life matters. Like if the parents are not financially stable.. I think they shouldn't try getting prenant at all until they are on the track. Same way.. if they already know what kinda life their impaired child may have to lead.. they should really go ahead and terminate the pregnancy.
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^ thats what i am talking about
Re: What would you Do???????
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*Originally posted by kewlsolara: *
Abortion is haram.
you/your partner is pregnant 2-3 months and lets say its the planned baby.
at your regular checkup/ultrasound with your Doc , you have been told that the baby is abnormal to the extent that it will be a fully dependant child from birth till death.
and This means A hell lot of responsibility for the rest of your life.
What will you do??????
For the start of conversation : my wife and i have decided no matter how wrong the abortion is but in such a case we will go for it.
Only Serious replies please.
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If abortion is for a medical risk/danger(whether to the child or the mother)...one should go for it!