Re: what would you do, serious advice only please
If u ask me (Well, no one's asking so hell).... I would devise a cleverly plotted plan, actually i would devise my own, cleverly and e.t.c, e.t.c.... to make the parents think, and understand that if they have the slightest chance of settling anywhere but Pak, then they would definitely go for it.
And the plan is a bit lengthy so I cant outline all the sets and plots and e.t.c u know...but for a start... the GUY should get beaten up, screwed and left in shambles. U don't have to pay anyone, the guy can ask any of his hundred friends a favor. Or, say something nice to his friend's sista.... easy!!! So when the parents would see him in tatters, and he moaning and groaning, i guess they would definitely have to change their mind.
OK on the contrary, sometimes the egomaniac in me spurs my control so i didn't write the above paras. I have nothing to do with this... I am out-a-'ere.