Re: What would you do in this situation…
Sorry to say this but there are times when teachers are not too big at documenting things. I have gotten really big on documenting incidents but I know a teacher who is not, and it drives me nuts.
Khattimeethi, I think you did the right thing of staying out of the situation at that time. But it is okay for you to discuss your concerns with the teacher in a private setting as a parent. I would not mention the incident of other child with the teacher but stress that you teach your kids not touch other children, especially when they are in the bathrooms. You understand that your child should hit the other child when being provoked but at the same time you are concerned about your child’s safety and privacy.
As for your son, if this was the only incident, I would not punish him. Just stress the fact that it is not okay for that child to touch him or for him to hit the child. Instead he can use his words and if that doesn’t work ask an adult for help immediately. Also, if something happens in the bathroom again, he should inform the teacher right away and let you know when you guys get home as you want to ensure his safety. Keep it simple and short.