what would you do in this case...

[partyslims]

Re: what would you do in this case...

@el_topo

Slims, you sound awfully experienced in matters of, er, rendezvous.

Funny, my mistress says the same thing.

[el_topo]

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Bada bish!

[sheyn]

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**Partyyyyy

To OP…This man needs validation that he still has it going and your providing that…that is all you are to him at this point in his life !..Sever ties before its too late .**

[sheyn]

Re: what would you do in this case…

**Partyyyyy

To OP…This man needs validation that he still has it going and your providing that…that is all you are to him at this point in his life !..Sever ties before its too late .**

[Sara516]

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@partyslims

They should meet once or twice a week in a discreet out of town motel. I'm sure nothing would happen.

Yeah..they can just play Ludo and carrom board. :)

[confusedaboutinlaws]

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Thanks Partyslims... posting a thoughtful post for once :)
thats helps a lot!

[partyslims]

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A backhanded compliment. My favorite. You are welcome confusedaboutinlaws :)

[Mirch]

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@partyslims

Maybe he is going through a bit of a rough patch. Maybe something happened that reminded him of you (I’m assuming you’re talking about yourself since you just said “It’s just hard” ) and he got to thinking about that time in his life and how happy he was with you in his life. The thing is, if nothing too much happened between the two of you, there will always be this ideal image of how perfect things may have been, but you would never know because that isn’t the path you two went down. Unfortunatley strong feelings like this just can’t be eradicated from one’s brain. You have to come to some sort of terms with them, so you don’t jeaopordize what you have for some memory of an ideal life that was never to be.

:k:

[CherryBlossom]

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so you'll become a mistress to a married man while cheating on your own husband for a crush you had a decade ago.

some people need to wise up sooner than later.

[Paheli00]

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@confusedaboutinlaws

Agree with all of you! BUT why did he have to contact after all these years.... its just hard...

What difference does it make as to WHY he contacted the woman? Maybe he still loves her? Maybe he's bored? Maybe he needs some type of validation? Maybe he's miserable in his marriage? Maybe he wants to see how she's doing? If the ex wants her, will she leave her family? My point is.....why does it matter to the woman as to WHY he's contacting her? Will it make a difference?

Oh...and yes, it's hard to tell this ex to not to contact her anymore....but how hard do you think it will be if the woman's husband somehow finds out what she's doing behind his back?

[saint_devil]

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tryin' to rekindle flares with an old flame will leave you absolutely empty handed with your own family destroyed if hubby gets even a slight wind of whats happening and what has happened in the past between the two. Shut the door and move on. Once married and have kids, there's just no room or reason for the two [ex] love birds to revive contacts or be friends. Think from respective spouses' point of view. Men specially are not forgiving at all in such matters.