… you are not physically attracted to your spouse anymore?
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Find another one
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On a serious note, I THINK by the time the physical attraction is over, there usually is a bond deeper than the physical one which would eventually make you stay in the marriage?
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agreed wth zareen physical attraction is only in the beginning thn its more kind of emotional bond :)
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and then you become habitual, and habits are hard to quit. :@:
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eat peanut butter sandwich
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that…
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noodle and nomica (n) y always weird threads?
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Well new wife. Duh. WE are allowed 4. Women are stuck with their men.
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In addition to some options presented by other posters there There are many other options.
1. Get treated for impotence
2. Become celebit
3. Become a monk
4. Become a sufi
5. Become a preacher
6. Change profession
7. Retire
8. Consult a plastic surgeon to fix whatever you do not like about her/him.
9. Get treated for depression , PTSD .
I will add to this list when I get any more ideas.
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Obviously. They'd all divorce their spouses and end up marrying you of course (men and women).
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Well new wife. Duh. WE are allowed 4.** Women are stuck with their men.**
There is such a thing as divorce..
If there was absolutely nothing there (a physical or emotional bond) I'd walk away..
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Pay for him to get a new face so you can feel that thrilll again
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I would start protecting my gaze from strangers of opposite gender (na-mehrams) and pray to Allah (swt) to protect me from 'Hawas' (that is more blind than love). Because when one stares too much at other's property, the grass seems greener at the other side of the fence. One's mind unintentionally starts to compare one's belongings with others and fancies those faces with the beauty of which ones eyes haven't got used to yet, compared to what one has become used to.
I agree that emotional/spiritual bond in the hearts does play a major role, but that too can be weakened when one allows the spiritual dirt to pollute the heart through the eyes.
p.s. Tahajjud prayer adds noor to the face, by the grace and mercy of Allah (swt)
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Why would you assume that not being attracted to one’s partner means being attracted to another’s?
Underlying issues, buddy.
Restored attachments:
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^ epic pwnage.
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LMAO! That is just edited brilliant.
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What I said earlier is not the ultimate cause in 100% cases, but one of the causes specially in case of young couples. Why the attraction before marriage and why not after marriage ?! The question asked was:
... you are not physically attracted to your spouse anymore?
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... you are not physically attracted to your spouse anymore?
I would turn off the lights before doing it.
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What I said earlier is not the ultimate cause in 100% cases, but one of the causes specially in case of young couples. Why the attraction before marriage and why not after marriage ?! The question asked was:
Why are you getting so defensive buddy?!
Its okay! Shhhh...

