..like getting involved in gangs, vandalism, assault, robbery, dealing drugs etc?
^ talk to them....
die?
i think sending the boys to cadet college [army school] in pakistan would do the trick...a lot of ppl think thats the best way to discipline sons who r 'getting out of hand'...hmmm..
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Get them a lawyer.
By this time, paani sarr say guzr chuka hai. You should have started talking to them much earlier.
Military schoolz are great for descipline ...
how old are the kids? if they are young, send them to boarding schools or one of those military schools.
if they are old, then u can just talk to them try to make them understand.
well, u should have seen the trouble coming and should have tried ur best to prevent it before it got too far
If that does happen, talk to them about it and send them to boot camp for a little while (if in America) or there are programs that take kids to spend a day in jail to see what its like (for older kids) that should scare them enuff to get their act together…
if old enuff tell them to get a job start paying for their own things becuz ur sick of supporting them when they dont deserve it, this way they’ll have less free time to waste on such activities and things would get better…
u should also try to get them more involved with the masjid, ive seen some kids make a complete turnaround once they were taken to the masjid on a regular basis…
u should try to spend more time with them as well, sometimes kids revolt when they feel their parents arent giving them enuff attention
But also u should pray for them because in the end everything is in Allahs hands 
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i was sent to pakistan instantly
Hug them.