learn some punjabi gaalees and hurl them back at him. He will be shocked.
Nilu, your husband sounds like a jaahil jutt, the more I hear about him, the more I'm convinced of this, and so are his parents for demanding grandchildren. He shouldn't be talking to you like that, ie punjabi gaaliyaan. Arguments and fights are natural, but respect should never be compromised.
Maybe you should poison him. Try lead over a period of a year or so.
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haha! I mean really.. the guy needs to get some sense knocked into his head. Calling names is just so awful!
Hmmm...Chances are that if a person gives a gaali once, they'll give the gaali again. Things like giving gaalis, beating are bad habits that some men might have and some won't, depending on their own personal morals. Its got nothing to do with their relationships with their wives. Just like some kids answer back to their parents, because they can't control their anger. If the parents start giving them the cold shoulder, it might work in some cases but in others it might alienate them further.
If anything, I think in these situations the wife should not get offended and if she truly cares for the husband, not make it an ego issue, and try to help the husband come out of this problem of not being able to manage his anger. The cold shoulder idea, while it may sound cool, will never produce good results if the relationship has to continue smoothly. Rooth kar bayth jana bohot asaan hota hae.
I was also watching a Pakistani TV program on similar topic last night and most men there too admitted to giving gaalis and beating their wives. Not that I think its right, but I think this thing needs to be dealt with rationally by the woman and both partners should swallow their egos.
agreed :k: