what would you do.....if your friend informed that

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she is going to commit suicide or something…

and more importantly..

when they are saying this stuff…what would you ‘‘say’’ to the person???

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If its a she I dont know…

If it was a he… well theres only one thing I can do… knock him out and drop him at the Hospital… when he wakes up I hope he can forgive me. :bummer:

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:/

get them help asap. Meaning I would first judge how serious she really is and than inform a family member of hers to whom she is very close.

Maybe with the help of the family member I would try to help her out in sorting the issues which are leading her down this path.

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I will ask when and where and make sure that I am there to stop them.

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Tell her the most easiest way

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It is a SHE…a HE wouldn’t usually let anyone know i guess…

i mean…how would u judge the seriousness?? secondly…if they had someone close in the family to share such an info…they would’ve done so to them before telling u…no?? :konfused:

and what do you mean by ‘getting help’??

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laugh it off during phone call conversion hang up and call his/her parents (spouse or gf/bf) and let them know about their son/daughters/wife/or whatevers suicidal intentions.. they can take it for there.

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But what’s to stop them trying when they get back home??

If the person is depressed and considering suicide send them to a counsellor/psychologist/psychiatrist (depending on how serious you think they are).. If they won’t go and are a danger to themselves or others have them sectioned - if that’s possible in Pakistan.. If that’s not possible don’t leave them alone - esp with sharp objects or anything they can use to harm themselves.. Tell a trusted family member who will be sympathetic and keep an eye on them without making them more upset and possibly causing even more problems..

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jugular is her best bet.

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something? Is there any thing else in life that is similar to suicide ? perhaps marrying an old man three times older than your age :D