What would you do if you found out

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Re: What would you do if you found out

@Curious Lady

Cheating is a deal-breaker for me. If I found out, I would yell at him until I have no more energy left. At some point during all the yelling, I would ask why that was done.

I can understand that we all find other people attractive and sometimes have crushes too. But that is where you need to be conscious and stop yourself. If my SO does not have the respect for himself or me to do that, I am not staying.

I sooooooo agree with you on that bolded part there. It’s part of human nature to find other people attractive but it’s in the way that you deal with it that matters. Can’t give in to every instinct y’know?

@Gaia

Its important to talk and know all the facts, before any conclusions develop.

If a parent cheats, I would lose all respect, but not do anything since its between the parents.

absolutely. I strongly advise anyone and everyone to not act out of anger. Take some time chill for a bit and then think with a clear head. Often times when we’re in a situation of deep distress, we don’t have a clear enough head to make the right decision.