That your wife/husband/girlfriend/boy friend etc is having a realtionship with another person… (God Forbids). I just want to know what your reaction would be… what would you do?
Kill the person who he/she is having a relationship with
Divorce ur wife/husband
Do a bit of besti and thats it…
Kill him/her…?
Re: What would you do if you ever find out....
if it feels like 100 lashes to you then give them 1000 lashes! and smile :)
Re: What would you do if you ever find out....
divorce! guys need reason to divorce and get a new bride!.. what better way is it to get another wife than to give divorce to ur wife based on having relationship with another person? :P
obviously im kidding here, plz dont start quoting me on that... but ya.. giving warning the first time and if it still doesnt solve the issue, then i guess i'd proceed with divorce.
I know a lot of people who say that when you see a red flag in your relationship you should just leave it but i think it's BS........... even though cheating on your significant other is a huge deal and you can't really get over it........ you should give him/her a chance.... i just think if Allah can give us a 1000 chances it wouldn't hurt us giving someone else 1 chance!
And you also find out a lot after that situation like if he/she is worth it or not... if they really realized what they've done is wrong or not..... relationships are all about compromising so don't make a a decision w/o really thinking of it!
Re: What would you do if you ever find out…
Extra-marital affairs are not to be tolerated. No ifs, ands, or buts. Islam backs you up on this one!
Don’t people have boyfriends/girlsfriends so they can keep their options open!? 
Re: What would you do if you ever find out....
i think,the first time,he/she should be given warning,but,i don't think thats gonna help that much,because,once a cheater,always a cheater.if my partner would cheat on me,then i don't think i could forgive and accept him ever.
Just keep in mind..........if it is the wife having an affair..........and results in a child from the other Man.........the Husband still got to raise the child as his own....even if the couple get a divorce!
That way the child is not punished for parents indiscretion!
Re: What would you do if you ever find out....
If I found out my first step would be to make sure the accusation was 110% accurate.
Then, I would pack my bags and leave with absolutely no explanation whatsoever.
He would come home and find me gone. Everything after that would be dealt with through an attorney.
The reason for that is simple: he didnt explain before he cheated that he was about to go ahead and step out of our marriage to satisfy his curiosity with another female, why should I explain or even warn him of what Im about to do?
If he decided to cheat on me, then he would have to live with absolutely no closure/explanation/even a glance from me...for the rest of his life.