Re: What would you do differently?
Your kids inshallah will have the best of so many cultures, it's really exciting! I don't know the exact heritage of your hubby but the Romania pics were amazing and since you're Paki yourself, I see some gorgeous kids coming up! If you're intent on teaching them Urdu and if your husband teaches them his native language, can you imagine how great it would be for them to know so many different languages?
I think it's so crucial to teach kids different languages at an early age because that's when their picking speed is rock high. I consider myself lucky when I hear people tell me that oh, you speak more than one language? we americans only know... english! I want my kids to not only know Urdu but also feel pride in belonging to such a great Pakistani heritage!