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So what real stuff are we talkin’ about here???

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But isn’t that cheating as well (wifeys are supposed to be only liking and be loyal to their husband right?).

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…are they? thats what i was asking u…what would u do? and u said “whats the big deal gurls are crzy abt indian actors..same thing”

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Actually what you implied is that women finding indian actors hot is different from men finding women in a movie…

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I agree with mama 100%.

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:confused:

forget it.:rolleyes:
i dont want your precious opnion on this issue.:blush:

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Shweetdreamz, you obviously have a lot of growing up to do and a lot of learning to do, specially about men. Like mamaof3 said, men are visual creatures, just cuz they're watching porn doesn't mean they're cheating on you. It is also something that some couples enjoy together. It is a very personal thing. Again, like mama said, at least he is not out at strip clubs or worse, cheating.

Secondly, you don't want to give your husband/boyfriend an ultimatum, to stop watching porn. It would humiliate him, and he would still do it, he'd just get better at hiding it. It can take a toll on the relationship. If it's something that bothers you, perhaps the right conversation would go something like "I don't like pornography, if you like it, that's your choice, please view it on your time, and I don't want to know about it". But a man's a man, you can't change such base instincts.

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aahmed- i want men's opinions on what they would do if they caught their wives doing such.

i havent given MY opinion yet.

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Isn’t that UR opinion rite there, in part anyway? Well when it comes to porn in ur scenario, then my immediate reaction wud be surprise (if i didn’t know about this previously), but definately not shock…if we take religion out of this issue (cos we all know it’s wrong), then i c it as something ppl watch as a fantasy…as long as u trust each other, that the porn just remains as something that gets u in the mood or wotever, then it won’t affect the relationship long term IMO.

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^^ in part as in i wouldnt say "no problem"

i notice no men have responded to what would they do if they saw their wife watching other men on tv/PC.

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all men are bz right now watchin those movies :halo:

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:hehe:

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In response to that question, it honestly wouldn’t bother me, if anything, I would be a little surprised and it might be a little exciting, and I might say in my best Borat voice “sexyyy tiiiime!!!”.

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lolz…
by the way whats BORAT???

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masha’allah :smiley:

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yes I dont think the guys will post many answers here,,,,they just wouldnt know what to say....they'd be baffled that their "woman" was watching....it actually IS pretty unusual for a woman to be into that kind of thing. Not that its abnormal, its just unusual and surprising.

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M-m-mm my M-m-mama said, modern sexually aggressive women are all sluts. M-my mama is always right. So, if caught my wife watching porn, I wouldn't know what to do. Blame my mama.

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You don’t know who Borat is? Do a google search on Borat.

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oh please... women watch porn.. its not just a man's thing any more.. hormones and mind's sparking needs are in everyone ...

regarding catching, well i am not offended AS LONG as its porn.. its when the mailman visiting in my work hours when i will have a real problem ...:D

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I think IF it was me in that situation then my husband wud definately be shocked, and then he wud get turned on too…i read somewhere once that if a woman sees 2 women in a porn or something and she gets turned on, it’s not cos she is a lesbian…it’s cos it reminds her of her own sexuality or something…and if i saw my husband watching porn where there was a man n woman, i know he’s not bisexual or somthing cos it’s probably just reminding him of sex…for ex) u don’t crave a choc cake necessarily, but when u see it rite in front of u then u want some…i know it’s not a good example but that’s all i can think of now hehe…i guess after seeing porn, they want to have sex for real, with the person they love…who knows…so wot is ur opinion on this shweetdreamz, wud u get angry at him…wud it lead to the end of the relationship? Like mamaof3 said, it’s a private matter btwn the couple and i’m sure a lot of couples r okay with it, and some r not.