u get the guy of ur dreams n he worships every step tht u take but.. the situation is just wrong wid him, as in the whole ‘MIL’ drama..besides he just has loads of responsibility..actually just the mother in law thingy..n u know for years u hav tried all ur best but shes just a tough nut to crack
wat would u do?
try harder n have patience?
OR
give up on a relationship tht will just end up in a mellow drama later..
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try harder n have patience
Life is this test
you have to be up 2 it
and giving up is like losing
and its very painful
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if u think that moving on wuld be easier thn staying in this relationshin thn move on. Some times love just isn't enough. This MIL situation isn't going to go away, it will be a part of ur future...so keep that in mind.
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The answer is in your question.
This is the wrong advice 3983 is giving. You shouldn't find easy solution out of situations. You should find the right solutions no matter how easy or hard they are.
All relationships have significance in one's lives. One cannot just move on.
The answer is in your question.
This is the wrong advice 3983 is giving. You shouldn't find easy solution out of situations. You should find the right solutions no matter how easy or hard they are.
All relationships have significance in one's lives. One cannot just move on.
U might consider my advice to be wrong, but if u haven't been in this situation thn u dont understand it. But I have experienced it, and it’s not easy being mentally abused day after day...for no reason or fault of ur own. Allah has given us the power to make our own decision. Why pick the path that you know will be tough regardless of ur efforts.
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^ I can see where Rabia is coming from basically cutting your ties loose and moving on sometimes can be the best thing.
What the guy in question is needs to do is realise that his wife is also his responsibility, and that your mother is owed a lot for bringing you into this world, but you are also owed happiness of a happy martial relationship and stressing out the DIL ain't helping the situation. Maybe MIL just needs to chat to her DIL and express what her concerns are? Surely she can see that her son is still completing his duties?
Are you sure it’ll all end or do you think it’ll continue this way forever.. do try harder CG and hope for the best! 
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Zalim smaaj 
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will the guy who worships you let you go that easily? ... if yes ... then yea walk away.
will the guy who worships you let you go that easily? ... if yes ... then yea walk away.
he so wont leave me n i knw its easier said thn done to say ill finish it due to the whole MIL thing but when the situation is such tht both the sides know its not bcuz of each other but cuz of someone else! i mean how the hell cn u possibly deal wid such a stuck up situation :@
whyyyyy the hell do budhey ppl do this? they know they r so close to dying but they just dunt stop!!
rant over!
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contact an undertaker.
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well if u love the guy enough then just hope the MIL will be out of the picture soon.
WHAT? Everyone thinks it I just said it.
u get the guy of ur dreams n he worships every step tht u take but....
you said it yourself. It is not easy to just "move on" if this is the guy of your dreams. It's easier said than done and sometimes not done at all. Have patience and be his partner not another responsibility.
… been there
hang in there.
There isn’t much YOU can do CG … let your guy take over at this point. HE needs to step in/step up.
inshallah all will work out in time.
well if u love the guy enough then just hope the MIL will be out of the picture soon.
WHAT? Everyone thinks it I just said it.
I was just going to say that. I'd never leave an amazing guy just because his mother was being tough.
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Anything worth having is worth fighting for...
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I couldn’t agree more 
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What are the reasons for the objections? Your other half needs to talk to his mother and if you guys want ti bad enough, you will make it happen.
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try harder and have patience
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Depends on why you and the guy's mum can't get along, and who is causing the drama.