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TS,

Saw my cousin in Pak a few weeks back. She was born and raised there. She’s been married for two years (got married in her mid-twenties…so she was older than your daughter)…and MashaAllah se, she’s very happy. She now has a son who is almost a year old.

She herself tells me that she learned cooking/household management after marriage. Her family had a servant, she was busy with her education and job, so never really learned cooking before marriage. After marriage, she adapted.

I know of other friends and cousins who learned these things after marriage.

People can usually adapt to situations. You adapt to a new school…new job…new home, etc. It’s a bit challenging in the beginning, but as time goes by, you start adjusting.

I know examples of people who…when living with their parents were very spoiled (didn’t have to do that much housework). But then they moved out…or moved to college and lived in a dorm…and slowly started cooking their own food/cleaning/doing their own laundry, etc.

Your daughter will be fine :slight_smile: If you’re so worried about her, gently encourage her to start cooking. Maybe you can tell her to cook one dish a week. Perhaps on the weekends. One week she can practice vegetarian…another week a meat-dish…another week a desert. Etc.