Re: What would ammi abu say????
Yeah I have done, my dad is really liberal so wasn't too worried about him whilst my mum is quite strict (more religious than cultural tho).. she is fine with it now.. I think it's kinda sad when ppl don't even try cos then nothing would ever change.. Tbh if she hadn't come round I prob would go ahead anyway cos I have never had such strong feelings for anyone and my dad promised he would support me as well as relatives and family friends so it's not like I would have been an outcast..I know of a few other ppl who got married and both parents were totally against it and in all but one case they did a complete u-turn and everything has been resolved. They happily babysit their grandkids and their relationships with their kids have completely gone back to normal..