Re: what would a good husband do in these situations…
if you believe that your threshold of patience has exceeded its limit then yep its better to at least present civil on the day of judgment. otherwise i had this thread on “confrontation” for a reason. there are people in family-friend circle where they act exactly like nadz. so my personal experience is since i cant leave these people, i mastered the art of “ignoring” these people. i become deaf, when they confront me, or present me with a long list of problems they have with me.
and trust me shareef people cant stoop to their level of barbarism. whether you tie to bed or stove, they will become extreme lunatic and will haunt you until you dont do as what they say. they are that radio that stuck on one frequency, and which you cant talk back.
from my personal experince, its a waste of time, and energy if you try to explain them your situation.