so i just watched few episodes of drama serial humsafar n was just wondering what other ppl do in this situation?
guys : your father request u 2 marry a girl whom u dont know… u only know 1 thing that she is incompatible… so r u gng 2 fulfil ur father’s wish n vl make a scarifice?
girls : mother on dead bed same request of marriage u know that guy dont want 2 marry u wht vl u do?
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If you dont know a girl? How do you know she is incompatible?
Ever heard of never judge a book by its cover?
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wow, are you seriously going to ruin that beautiful kahani for us by turning it into a real life scenario.
please dont:(
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Just wanting 2 know wht if the story is real life scenerio
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Sorry to rev up an old topic but I was watching this drama and I would NEVER agree to marry anyone. Even if they were dying. It isn't fair and I always found this whole "last wish" thing really odd. Marriage is NOT something you let a dying loved one decide, especially if you know both dont want to get married to one another or have anything that makes them compatible.
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Why do parents do this? I can understand setting smaller conditions....but why place life-altering conditions on your child...where if things don't work out, it's your child and not YOU (the parents) that will suffer most. Not even your child...but someone else's son and daughter as well. It's selfish to place such a demand and in a way it's selfish to fulfill it when your heart's not into it....cuz you're giving little to no consideration to the feelings of the person you've resigned yourself to marry and how your lack of interest will affect their life. Yes, I understand that parents want to see their kids settled down during their life-time......but if you impose something that you son/daughter does not want.....you've crossed over to the next world...and your child is the one dealing with an undesired situation. Why isn't it seen from that perspective? You can argue that feelings might develop later...but what if they don't?
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Hai! The drama & the cast .. such an addictive show 
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Why do parents do this? I can understand setting smaller conditions....but why place life-altering conditions on your child...where if things don't work out, it's your child and not YOU (the parents) that will suffer most. Not even your child...but someone else's son and daughter as well. It's selfish to place such a demand and in a way it's selfish to fulfill it when your heart's not into it....cuz you're giving little to no consideration to the feelings of the person you've resigned yourself to marry and how your lack of interest will affect their life. Yes, I understand that parents want to see their kids settled down during their life-time......but if you impose something that you son/daughter does not want.....you've crossed over to the next world...and your child is the one dealing with an undesired situation. Why isn't it seen from that perspective? You can argue that feelings might develop later...but what if they don't?
exactly this is wht i meant that wht if they dont get along n separate afterwards its better not 2 force any1 :)
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Sorry to rev up an old topic but I was watching this drama and I would NEVER agree to marry anyone. Even if they were dying. It isn't fair and I always found this whole "last wish" thing really odd. Marriage is NOT something you let a dying loved one decide, especially if you know both dont want to get married to one another or have anything that makes them compatible.
Totally agree..