WHAT U LL DO??

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Guys and gals - here’s a hypothetical question, what would you do if you found your soul-mate after you are married to someone else ?
Is that possible ?
If you ever find yourself in that kind of situation, what’s the best thing to do ?
Check your feelings, or listen to what your heart tells you ?

Invite everyone’s enthusiastic participation, if this topic hasn’t been covered already - and if you all find it interesting !

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has been covered already.

anyways u shud go have an affair as the other person is ur soulmate so it's alrite.

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did u just watch Kabhi alvida na kehna :hehe:

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since i’m married already, i will forget about my soul-mate in that case.. marriage demands all my love, care, attention and time..

plus i dont think i will be looking at anyone else when i will be married.. :konfused:

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Nope not yet:) but am planning to:D

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hehehehehe. Thats the best sarcasm i've heard in awhile. Well done, afridi.

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Personally, I find the whole concept of love, soulmate, etc etc to be a little far fetched. When we get of age, we get married. This whole idea of love at first sight or soulmate is best left to the people of bollywood.

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I read in an article recently that most people do not marry their soulmate. Whatever that means. And yet many still have successful marriages.

My soulmate will be my hubby, insha'Allah. I wouldnt talk to a person of the opposite gender when married, to the extent that I will even start thinking of him as a possible soulmate.

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You shouldn't be having the sorts of conversations with men that you are not married to that would lead you to believe that they are your soulmate. It is much easier to avoid this sort of situation in the first place than try to wrestle with your emotions once you are in it.

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i went yesterday but couldn’t get tickets…they said house full. Sold out :smiley:

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well said agreed

Hello children.
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I would basically follow this advice, so the situation wouldn't come up in the first place, inshAllah.

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Originally Posted by amanaYou shouldn't be having the sorts of conversations with men that you are not married to that would lead you to believe that they are your soulmate. It is much easier to avoid this sort of situation in the first place than try to wrestle with your emotions once you are in it.Yes i'll follow your advice too :)

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Lifes battle is between your mind and your feelings...Make sure you do what you know you should do rather than what you want to do...remember Adam and the apple lol...Try and make your marriage work thats what you can do...if your still not happy then the choice you make afterwards wont be such a bad one....just remember meeting your supposed soulmate whilst your still married is not going to make fore a good relationship...just make sure your single if you do it...

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You shouldn’t. In fact, there is a hadith where the Prophet (s.a.w) said that If you are out in the market and you are attracted to some1, immediately go home and have intercourse with ur wife and continue ur work later".

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Good advice, Amana! Honestly, this whole soulmate thing is a big myth perpetuated in films and trashy romance novels. All it does is make people miserable and dissatisfied. People should be of the mindset that the person they marry is their soulmate no matter what. You can make anyone your soulmate if you put your mind and heart into it.