And one more important bit of advice. Many women complain that their men dont contribute as much to the care of their kids. But sometimes, they are part of the cycle. When being taken care of by the father, the mother may keep criticizing things like hold the baby like this, or feed her like this, or clean him like that.
But really, we women do have it harder, no matter how much a man works, it's nothing compared to raising kids, working, and looking good and staying slender (esp with our naturally slower metabolism!).
if daddy doesnt tell mummy how to take care of the baby, mummy shouldnt boss him as well.....let daddy do it in peace as he wants to..(and in this generation men do take responsibility equally)
men say their share is harder, women say theirs is harder....bottom line is tht we'll probably get to hear the same complain even after switching places, as it is in human nature to always want the other thing
that's an unfair statement. why should women be the only ones to forgo their goals? If men are out of work, they feel worthless. Some women might feel the same way. Housework can be pretty menial and mind-numbing, some people need an outlet. I think the real issue is that men need to be more understanding of the changes going on in the world. Mothers and fathers should work together to raise the kids while supporting each other's goals and dreams. As it should be- too many kids don't get enough fatherly care. Dads aren't only for playing ball and giving you money. THey're for bath time and storytelling and dinner and clean up too. If not, dads are missing out on some of the most rewarding experiences about being a parent.
we all feel worthless when we dont have anything to do, women are best at emotional stuff(proven scientifically), hence tht's where the caring bit comes from, it's natural....men are made for the tough work, hence all tht fast metabolsim thing, as they need energy......women are not meant to do all the hard work....accept yr role, work if u want to, why always complain?.....in this age as it is, women work, men work..women clean the babies, men do as well...women clean house, men do too...