Re: What to wear?
Sure, I’ll give Muzna jee a hug anytime 
Somegroovychick You wanna hear my lame excuse for not wearing shalwar kameez myself? 
Well, it only has one pocket and I have to carry my wallet, cell phone, and car keys with me and when I put all those in one picket, my kameez hangs on one side and it is very annoying. I do understand that sometimes girls just feel odd wearing shalwar kameez at non-desi occasions, and I understand it because I wouldn’t do it myself. So something I wouldn’t do myself, it is wrong of me to expect that from my wife, or any girl.
I suggested that I would prefer saari or shalwar kameez on her, but if she doesn’t feel comfortable wearing it, that’s her choice because I don’t want to force it on her and spoil her mood for the event 