Re: What to do
Ah, you misunderstand me. I’m not talking about getting busy outside the house. It’s women getting busy within in. My mother constantly thinks about her garden, the fruits she grows in it, the repair work, renewing wallpapers, dealing with the electrical work, what to cook, clean etc. If she cannot make those decisions without disturbing someone else’s hardwork (your mother) then she’s putting her energy elsewhere. Most women are not interested in dealing with multiple houses and she would not be either but it seems like she does not feel she can call your home her own and is more comfortable dealing with her mother’s because that’s where she has more ownership and autonomy. If she was not interested in building a home and working in it her mother’s house would not interest her as much as it does now.