What to do ?

Salam,

Im new here ;)! I live in Paris so plz sorry for my baaad english :smack:!

I think my question is very very stupid and I am sorry for that but i need some advice!

Ok so yesterday in the train i saw a friend of mine… She was a very good friend… I see her with a guy and she was kissing him! But the problem is that she got married a few months ago and the kisser was not her husband!
I am really shocked! How can she do something like that?.. She was a nice girl and I liked her!
I spoke to her 2 weeks ago on the phone and she told me that she was very happy with her husband, he is really sweet and the in-laws too…
Now i don’t know what to do… should i talk to her and try to stop her to ruined her life or should i shut my mouth and forgot what i saw ?
I wanted to do the 2nd option but i don’t not… if a muslim see another muslim do a major sin is a duty to each of muslim to discourage sinful activities?

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Stay out of it, its their business.

At the end of the day both of them rightly ot wrongly will see you as the reason they broke up

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hmm you liked her…
how would you feel if kisser was you ?

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Think again , she might be administering CPR to a dying person. A Muslims will not let someone die specially if they know CPR.

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If she's a very good friend, than I would talk to her.

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you could talk to her once (since you said she's a very good friend) but then don't press the issue again and let go if she denies it completely or gets defensive.

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where she was kissing... maybe the guy is her brother....

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lol no is not her brother, i know her brother very well...
She WAS a very good friend when we were teenager but not anymore!
Monk i don't want to kiss her but the boy with her was pretty HOT hmmmm ;)

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It’s their business, I’ll strongly advise you to do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING! S

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Seems legit...

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ok i think u r right ... I will do nothing!
She is crazy to kiss a boy like that in front to everybody... in France the pakistani community is very small and everyone knows everyone!

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Then you will set a good example by not interfering.

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But because i am pakistani i have to interfere in the life of everyone !!! :smack: :stuck_out_tongue:

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wth

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LOLs

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I think you do need to talk to her.

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You should call her and tell her casually that you saw her the other day with some gentleman. Break the ice, see what she says.

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And let us know what she had to say. I need that kind of mirch masala to help me go through the day. I am desi too , so you know. :)

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i hear in france thats just how they say hello. dont worry pal..

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are you sure about what you saw?