what to do???

dear porcelain doll,

woh sehi karei heh..apni ghar walon ki baat suno..unhi fikr hogi tmhri sabse zyada aur unhi ko pata heh ke kaise siutation heh tmhrlye for ur ristha ..iss forum pe to yeh log bilkol anjan heh aur inko kya fark paraiga agir tum behti rehi sari umar ghar pe..yeh sab larkion ko ek hi advice dete hai ke chordo larke ko..zara sa trouble to chordo?..ye zindagi heh..all have trouble..but face karo..warna tum kaise reh sakogi is zndgi mein?

tmhre behn ami seh kehti heh ke oonch neech ho hi jati heh risthon me..apni ami ka socho woh pehle hi bemar heh to kaisa mehsoos hoga usko woh fikrmand hojaigi agr uski beti apni mangni thor ke behtgai..i think tumhri relaiton zyada achi hosakti heh apne mangtr ke saat shadi ke baad woh bohot apni wife ki taraf kafi hojate heh..aur tmhri saaas achi heh jisne tmhr uske bete ki shikait krne pe kaha ke 'fikr na karo' warna woh mind bhi krskti ti..

i think tum boht senstive horai hoh..agr us ki tori si tmhri behn ke sat unban ho bhi gai to phir kya huwa?..boht kuch hojata hai..yeh to kuch bhi nehi heh..aur 1 saal mangni rehi heh tmhri..abhi tak to us larke ko pata hi chal gy ahoga ke wo dulat aur shaukiyan tmhri sis ki heh aur tmhri nehi..

tum boht zyada mind karai hoh choti cheezen..aisa na ho ke kal ko tum pashtao..tand damag se sochlo..woh sehi kare heh rishte asan nehi heh to come by..aur tumne kuch deka hoga na isme jo tumne online relationship ko barhaya..aur i think woh bhi tmhe like krta hai deko dono ma bete ne fone krke bataya ke tmhe samjana chye tmhr i sis ko..

to ka huwa agir usne tmse gift manglia?..big deal! so what?..shaadi ke baad tum osko apni taraf karlena abhi na shor machao..aur agir ye baat hai bhi to is bahane tmhri shadi hojaigi..phir uske bad tum osko chalaki se handle krna ke woh tmhri taraf hi hojai..samajgai na?..pleez apni akal istimal karo

apni ami aur step sisi jo tmhri ami ki madat karai heh..jisne rakwa heh tum logon ko apen sasural meh..aur jo tumhe achi advice deti heh like oonch neech ho hi jati heh..i think she is actuallya good person for a step sister..

ok dear..good luck

Why shank you RV dear! :wink:

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mymother already know this situation....butshe said ke agar bad main ye sab karen ge to kia hoga...mane unko yebhi bataya ke hum koi jahez nai de skte lekin wo kehta hai mujekuch nahi chahiye maine usko ye b kaha ke main uski family k sath nai reh skti wo har bat pe hee agree ho jata hai ek din agr larai ho to next time theek....i tried alot k ksi bat se wo tang a ke mujse hat jaye lekn nai....i feel k usko handle krna easy hai....lekin uski mother bohttttt clever hai or wo apni mother k bare main koi bat nai sunta....she is typical saas

Then just enjoy and marry him. Good luck! Just ignore the red part… :slight_smile:

Explain typical saas. I can imagine what you mean but a typical saas is plain and simple “myth”.

Aur dekho Indian movies…:hehe:

Tum us k hatne ka wait kyoon kar rahi ho?

Khud hi hat jao.

Wah! :)

I think she is just too impressed by him being persistent...

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^Persistence isn't always appreciated.

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**"wo kehta hai mujekuch nahi chahiye maine usko ye b kaha ke main uski family k sath nai reh skti wo har bat pe hee agree ho jata hai"

**HA HA HA

as i have said earlier a man will agree, do anything to/for himself to GET something!!!!

I know one lady who was blindly in (i think) love or was it madness with this guy... wo kehta hai mein mar jaoun ga tumharay liye, yaar uski aankhoun mein wo chamak hai, jub wo mujhay dekhtay hai (hahahahahah) the guy agreed to every single word and demand that girl had and uskay baad jub shadi hui then same old tu tu mein mein story!!!!!!

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yes it always happen....ke pehlejokuch ho bad main wesa nai rehta.....i have decided ke agr wo log ab bhikahein ge ke hul batate hain to main keh don gi bata dein....q k agar mother ki treatmentki bathai to Allah ne unko waseela banaya hai.....wo hee koi or sabab paida karde ga

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inshallah