what to do???

let suppose a situation of a girl n a boy who are in long term relationship for quite sumtime n now both are ready n trying to turn it into marital relation. both are sincere.

even their families also kno abt their relationship but officialy families are not introduced to one another not even talked once, only boy met girls mum once.

now boys elder sis is getteing married soon. boy lives in US n well be cuming back on sis wedding n he wants to invite girl at his sisters wedding along with her family, this way he’ll find nice oppertunity to introduce the girl and her family to his.

but girls mum thinks its not a gud idea n this is the matter of their daughter’s n their family’s dignity. larkay walay shud come to ask her hand to her home.

guy suggest any nice n effective way for both the families to get introduced gracefully …

n also ur comments on this scenerion are invited

Re: what to do???

very simple old way.he tells his mom n either mom invites the family to wedding or visit the girls house.or the girl invites the boy home introduce to family,he goes home convince his mom,both families talk on phone n meet in resturaunt for dinner where the guy introduces both families to each other.

Re: what to do???

Elders do like the boy's side to make the first move. It is to do with izzat, tradition etc.

The boy's family can invite you and your family to the wedding. If that is not feasible, then the boy's side could always come for dinner or tea at your house or like Mabrook said invite you and your family to dinner.