Re: what to do???
^^^ i guess his family doesnt visit as much as her family in this case, thats my assumption. that can also put off some people. or he has been ignored by her family /relatives in the past in any way he think was important, he might have deep down in his heart about this, wouldnt mention though.
my in laws are completely opposite, they dont like to visit me or my family at all, all they want is speak to my wife and ask her to come over when she is in Pak, some of you may not beleive it in 4 years time my in laws visited me /or my family ..... Once and once before marriage , two visits in total and 2nd visit was forced by me.
my wife generally dont like people to come over our house, specially if they are not her friends. and she did the same in the past as your husband lock herself in the room and people looking at my face... where is your wife, apparently she acted exactly same as she use to do in her family home, if she didnt like anyone she just go to her room and take rest. let the other family members deal.
I made her to realise, here you are the lady of the house and there is no one who can replace you see people if they are your house... slowly she realised and fixed this.
but there has been a sharpe decrease of friends visiting me since I got married. cold response does repel people away