Thanks so much sara516 what words of wisdom you just gave me!!!It seems you really understood my problem... I never thought of it that way. I have always thought that he should always be comfortable with my family since we have been married a long time. But I have realized now that he feels that he is being judged for his behavior either by me or my family. I'll just have to start acting normal I guess. Thanks everybody!!
glad i cud help :)
hai i know people who so dont care about the finances and their wives are going crazy out of mind.life can suck at times.
^ how so? like they dont care abt earning? or they have a "Allah khair karay" attitude abt things?