What to do??

What to do if you know one of your good friends is in love with you and you can’t do anything about it but feel bad?

yes, I have quit talking to him. Did I do the right thing?

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if someone loves you it shud be a good feeling for you!! wonder why you stopped talking to him.. but then if its a romantic sorta love u shud explain to him “dekho maine tumhe waise nazron se kabhi nahin dekha hai. we can still be good friends but pls stop thinking of me like tat”.. fcouse all this only if u dont think of him nething more than a friend.. good luck :k:

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Yes you did, but now he's gona hate you, can you cope with that?

im not being serious..erm...i dont know chick, never been there or done that. All of my guy mates knew i would beat the crap out of them if they even thought about thinking of me in that way. :D

As for good friend..shes a girl and yeh she does love me but i allow her.

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o bhenji iska kya matbal hai???

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it means i allow her to love me...i dont even want to know what you thought it meant.

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^^ huh to me it seemed a grammatical rather than a semantic anomaly but neways appke dimagh mein kuchh aur chala to meri kya galti hai :D

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question should be what to do if you know someone who’s NOT a good friend and is in love with you :stuck_out_tongue: :mocking:

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That’s what I used to say to myself. Unfortunately, it had to come down to love-shove… :(.
I want him to hate me. Besides, I have learnt to cope with many things. Why not hatred!?

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whoops sorry for hijacking the thread with my moronic posts as usual... public, plz ignore the ^^ post of mine and carry on with ur thots on the topic

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I don’t feel good about it at all. The reason being is that I am in love with someone else. That eplains, doesn’t it? I tried to make myself look bad so that he hates me.

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I don’t care then. :stuck_out_tongue:

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how do you know he loves you? did he tell you or are u assuming? :-|

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I don’t assume these things. He told me.

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i think ur approach of making someone not love you by making them hate you is not a good idea... u shud face it and tell him what i said in my post #1. after all how wud he know that you dont love him too when he fell in love with u?? au contraire, if he knew that u were going steady with someone and still expressed his love to u, toh us bande se door rehna hi achcha hai

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He knew it. That’s why I quit talking to him. If I am around, he will never recover. He didn’t even realize that he had feelings for me. I was shocked when he told me!

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afsos ki baat hai, then u shud probly stay away from him until things cool down a bit... usko thoda time do to recover and u can also forget this issue for a while.. phir kabhi ittefaq se milogi bhi to it wont be a problem for u.. "hi hello" tak hi rakhna..

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well your a wimp:p…theres no such thiing as love chick…nothing comes down to love-shove.

be strong woman! learn how to fall in love with men you can’t have, its much easier…you forget about everyother bloke.

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:k: ..Thanks.. so I did the right thing. :slight_smile:

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magar bande par bhi taras ata hai.. uske jazbaat ko hum samajh sakte hain.. akhir hum bhi waise hi ek daur se kisi arsay mein guzray they.

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heh…i think u missed the point in my point…ah well :stuck_out_tongue: