Re: what to do with the hair after the wedding?
heheheh :) the amount of hair spray they use is just nuts and your hair does look crazy.
I wouldn't worry so much, i'm sure your husband will help you take out all the pins, use a brush to tame it a bit and then it should be fine for the night. The spray wiill help it not be too frizzy, it'll just be BIG so getting it to stay down will take a bit of work.
But i honestly think most guys realize that and aren't too bothered so wouldn't worry.