Re: what to do with the hair after the wedding?
aren't there products called detanglers in the market?
There are de-tanglers on the market which are wide toothed combs which might help..
On my wedding night - i took out all the pins and tied back my hair into a pony tail and you wouldnt have noticed that i had so much hair spray - next morning had a shower as normal. As SGC said, you will be too tired to have shower so just rest and .... ;-)