What to do with a friend who…

Would make a mountain out of a mole hill…how to treat her by not being rude to her at all?
Is it wrong to try to clear out the differences between your friends whom you live with 24/7 (living on campus)?
What to do if only one is at fault and other 4 people are being punished for it?
Even worst is what to do if nobody is at fault but nobody wants to talk about misunderstanding created there and shuts the door at you saying, “I dun wanna listen to this crap.”
Does one word of sorry brings back the friendship that you have had for 3 yrs with no fights involved??

Last but not least, what is the limit of expectations you can have from your very close circle of friends??

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Re: What to do with a friend who…

hmm talk to her.. sometimes what u think is nothing can mean the world to someone else.. even though its hard to believe

no… if they’re ur friends u should be able to clear things…

its called friendship… all for one and one for all (how soppy)… but yeah sometimes good friendships come with the ‘baggage’ (hahaha) sorry… but yeah sometimes u just need to stick by one another.. but if u truely think its wrong… then talk about it.. there is no point in keeping it all inside cus ur friendship will just grow weaker

some people dont deal with things the way u do… they like to shut things out… just be calm and try to talk about it when they feel like it… i know it gets hard… but the more pressure u put on someone to listen to u… the more they will rebel and things just wont go as planned…

it should… depends on what they did.. but generally speaking… forgiving is good :k:

there are no expectations in friendship… therefore no limit… good friendships are made cus of understanding and trust… there is no room for expectations :slight_smile:

"talk to her" is not gonna work at all because she simply doesn't want to listen to it. Unfortunately, she has been going through a lot lately and I do care for her so I will keep my mouth shut unless and untill she is wiling to listen. (I hope so).

"all for one, one for all"... So true, tahts what we always go through but now it is depressing as well as unfortunate. :-(

believe it or not, sometimes "sorry" makes the things worse.. I wish there was a magic word who could solve all the problems by even not saying it.

Expectations.... tahts where situation gets into wrong direction.. all five of us expect a lot from eachother because thats the only family we share here in this country... probably its more than friendship or may be all of us are dumb enough as we expect a lot from eachother!!!

I guess I should go and clear these things... because its too hard to live like this.. eat alone, go to library alone, or even to go to basement to get water bottle ALONE :(