what to do over univited long staying guest...

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Re: what to do over univited long staying guest…

@Paheli00

At the end of the day, it is not your house. It is your parents house. Your parents have the responsibility to control who lives in their house and who doesn’t.

Your parents have said to her parents that she’s allowed to stay in your parents house. But to treat her unkindly or make her feel unwelcome when she’s here is just ugly. And in my humble opinion, God doesn’t like ugly.

Agree :k:

I can relate to your particular situation, Nadz. And I know the concerns all to well. And I understand that we all can feel frustrated at times. But…if we don’t make the effort to keep our emotions (especially negative ones) in check…they start manifesting themselves in our body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice. People pick up on it. And you don’t strike me as someone who is mean. Hang in there…everything will sort itself out. Plus, you’ll be so busy enjoying your baby…you may not even notice her presence much.