When ur dadkay say to you, “Jao tussi jithay tera payoo haiga”..
i telll them the best thing to do is to slowly start considering these ppl as just ppl who are wasting precious space and air and naturall resources… i know its easier said than done and it takes a lot of time and patience but in the long run is it really effective?
The oldest daughter whos almost 17 (who was closest to her daddy) says nxt time she sees them, shes gnna do batameezi wit em and i cant blame her.. my ammi is saying aj kal zamana nahi hai kay you keep all ur anger and hurt bottled up .. you give it straight to those who deserve it instead of taking it out on innocnet ppl or slowly killing yourself from the inside.. The youngest one, who just turned 12, is always laughing and smiling and some of us call her pagal (out of love tho) but i think its better to be hamesha khush than to be always sad.. so when even shes sad it breaks my heart.. It makes me so angry.. id unno what to tell em.
Its family, never nice. If u can do what I do ... do it. My family is, my wife, children, myself, my mother, brother & sister. No one else exists for me unless I want them to exist (means if I want to meet or call someone I call otherwise they have no idea where I am).
Nooo it wasn't the grls mother, it was their dadkay, a puhpi or tayya who said it.. the mothers tough, but even she would never say something as fked up as this :(
It makes me so angry.. id unno what to tell em.
sorry sara, but could you post an english translation…