Re: what to do in this situation then
I think alot of you are missing the point, or maybe its just me who sees this?
Some people use this as a manipulation tactic–do all the chores and then complain to 1. make themselves look good (like the martyr they are) and 2. make the other person look bad (like a lazy person who cannot do anything).
So yes, on one hand I would be worried because with some people you just don’t know that if u do or don’t do something today, tomorrow they will throw it back at you to make you look bad.