Re: what to do in this situation as a mother…
Wha a edited!
You should have told him, if it were up to me, I wouldn’t have married you at all. I hate when men impose their God given rights on women. A-holes.
If I were you, I would have kicked him in the nuts and left. You shouldn’t have agreed to come to Pakistan but it’s too late now. It sounds like he is trying to trick you into staying there by keeping your daughter there. O this is horrible! Again, the problem could be the fact that he is jobless right now and every little thing seems like a bigger issue to him. He wants to feel like man, let him feel like a man. I would say let the daughter stay there. If you can’t stay away from your daughter for a few months, you have to do what he says.
You are pregnant and he is jobless, it’s a recipe for disaster.