what to do in this situation as a mother...

[nadz123]

Re: what to do in this situation as a mother…

@stoppit

Just stop talking or worrying about this. He’s said it, so fine, just have no opinion on it.

You are going back with your daughter, you will have the other one there with or without him. Just see what happens first, he may not even come back for the birth and if he does and then wants to take your eldest back with him, you can have the ‘I want her to stay with me’ argument then. You’re not going to change his mind about it right now.

yes and then most likely he will leave. and leave me. and tell me to stay in uk forever.