what to do in this situation as a mother...

[nadz123]

Re: what to do in this situation as a mother…

@Sehrysh

If it is important to have your daughter at her phupho’s wedding, why isn’t it important to have you (bhabi) there as well? And by that token, why don’t they postpone the wedding until you come back to Pakistan so you all can be a part of it?

Also, given that your husband is looking for a job, your MIL and SIL work, who does he suggest look after your child? Personally, I wouldn’t send my daughter that far away for that long.

they want me there too, but its my decision to go. with my daughter, hes trying to fight for her. it may be more to do with him missing her than him wanting her at the wedding.