Re: What to do about Grandma
It's a difficult situation.....you watch your child suffer through something you have endured and feel helpless. I don't know what I would do if this was happening to Noor.
I find it hard to suggest a solution since you have said that your family never really discusses things. I come from a similar family and I know how tough it is to just grit your teeth and bear it.
If she is not able to take the "talking to" from you, perhaps she might take it better from an outside person? Is there a friend that she confides in? A neighbour that she spends time with? Anyone that she might listen to? If you could have a conversation with them and ask them to intervene, it might help.