He visits his son every couple of month and use to spend weekend together,they do talk over the phone few times in a week .
EX receives money monthly from him for his son.
The guy Never abandon his child Loves him a lot and his son loves him aswell ..
Its Obviously not the same since he got married, some times he use to travel twice a month to see his son but now he cannot and His Ex found out few months ago that he got married and that could be the reason behind her sending Kid..
PS. He is worried about his kid and that's the only reason why he is so depressed.
The question is how would his wife react, what should he do to calm his wife down when when she finds out,,,
Then in this family, the son seems to be the one who gets the short end of the rope.
Both parents are selfish.
Both tried to show him love but both are reluctant to keep him.
Neither of them is really interested in son's benefit.
One big reason why 'some' women fight to keep the child/chilren with them where alimony is granted in large amount is not because they really love the child or children. They are more interested in alimony and child support. They use children as their trump cards.
The moment they find a man to marry them they find ways to dump the child or children.
In some situations, its possible to calm someone down or prepare them so they dont take things too hard. In this case, he cant do anything aside from be honest.
Its too late to calm her down or do damage control…the damage is out of control.
What he needs to do is talk to his wife, be honest and say it all. There will be a storm, a huge one in which his marriage may be over but that is what happens when you build a relationship on lies. WHen the foundation of a building is weak…how can you expect it to stay standing after a tornado? It will fall and if it doesnt…it will be a miracle and he will have to spend the rst of his life making this up to her.
He needs to go and get his son…asap.
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Diwana,
THis is wrong.
You just said women have no feelings towards their children and only keep them for money…so wrong. A mother is the best caregiver for her child in most cases.
One big reason why women fight to keep the child/chilren with them where alimony is granted in large amount is not because they really love the child or children. They are more interested in alimony and child support. They use children as their trump cards.
The moment they find a man to marry them they find ways to dump the child or children.
LOL. Woah...that's a HUGE assumption. Throw in the "Some" or "Not everyone" disclaimer.
The first time my husband literally thrashed me when he was drunk, i left his mothers house when i was 6 months pregnant or 5 i guess. With no parents no family and just my job, i went to office till the 2nd last day to my delivery and when i gave birth I WAS SO HAPPY.
We got back together (parents forced us) and then as well he continued the same behavior and during that time i got pregnant again, this time i separated FOR GOOD
I survived only on a chips and water from grocery shop for almost a year. No job, No frnd, no relative just no one supported me. Everyone told LET GO OFF THE CHILDREN, give HIM THE KIDS, I just DID NOT WANT to because I GAVE THEM BIRTH and they were my lovely daughters.
Diwana u need to gets ur facts straight there buddy. Being a mum i m really hurt by how some men like u even think!!!!!!!!!!!
