^ bcz he thinks his folks will create hurdles in his absence, he wants to hadle things in his way in his presence. he is not waiting for my another proposal, this is the worse situation he supposed to handle this way. he is waiting for his nxt trip after 1 yr
His folks cant do anything in his absence...unless they are the laati-danda type people...in which case you should think twice about this rishta.
If you are going to go along with this then know there is no guarantee things will work out after the year is over. Why one year? Why cant his parents be trusted to come to your house and resolve everything in a peaceful manner? These are adults...why are they being babysat?
Im not trying to attack him or you, just trying to show you things are not as they seem to you. It makes no sense to me that he has to wait another year and pretend you no longer exist because he is scared his parents may cause problems for you in his absence.
Here is what I think: He told his parents you are not a part of his life anymore. Things between the two of you will get rocky in the coming year and eventually you will break up...(khudana khwasta). Be smart, talk to him openly and if you sense something off...listen to your gut.