[*] What should she do?

I’ve got a friend who’s head over heels about this guy she’s been having something with for a very long time. They had they’re ups and downs, but survived through it all. Their relationship started to become something really serious. Now suddenly that guy doesn’t want to go on with the relationship. She tried talking to him. But she thinks he just won’t continue any longer. Should she try convince him to stay with her and work the things out he’s having in his mind or should she just let go of him and move on with her life?

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Its best that she give up on him....its a very sad thing to have your love unreturned. If she lets him go, perhaps he will come around but otherwise, would she want to marry a man who didnt love her? Not a nice way to live....

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..constructive advice. i agree.

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The sad thing is that he did love her but now suddenly he doesn't want to go on with it.

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i've been in a similar experience... but i dont care to share.

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You don't have to. :) I did talk to her about it. And she thinks she can't live on without him. But how should I make clear to her that she CAN? That she'll forget about him eventually and will pick up her life and realize it's much better without him?

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It can be anything. Cold feet, realizing something about the other person that just turns you off absolutely, meeting someone else, etc etc.

You can't force someone to love you. shrugs Maybe this is a good time for her to focus on other things in her life.

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wat is with these stupid galzzzzzz ... there are sooooo many things in life that have to be maintained with relationships , like their charms etc...

she should move on with life finding wat next is there for her.

wish her luck from my side. :)

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Main hoon na ....

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PCG. I guess it's cold feet in his case. But thanks for the reply!

Niyal. I know what you mean. Thanks :)

Sinner. I don't think she needs someone else right now. But thanks for offering!

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First of all, feel bad for your fren that her LOVE is reciprocal of what she has.
Since your fren already tried talking to the guy and he STILL didn’t want to continue then your fren shouldn’t keep on persuading him for keeping a relationship. What EVEN IF they get back together, from their situation there is no gaurantee that they will survive long in it.
Best thing fro ur fren is try to forget him and move. I know its eazy to say but hard to do…but u know its gonna be much easier than the life she gonna be spending to bring the dude come back!

Tell her find someone else :smiley: (j.k)

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:stupid:

just leave him…tellher to move on

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He doesn't want to continue this relationship! Any specific reaosn? Did he just lose interest?

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watever the reason is TruckDriver, its still will be stupid of her if she keeps on insisting him to come back!

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BTW how u can b so sure (wat she want or not )… its temp offer … not permanently .. :wink: … [ naiki karo aur well mein dalo :hoonh: ]

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It's best if she gives him up! Afterall you can't force anyone to love the other person. If he's not interested now then I wonder when he'll be. It is better to be "loved" than to give love, in the case of a successful relationship to work out.
Suppose he stays, it'll just be a forced commitment and he wont be happy and neither will he try to keep her happy. Instead his eyes will always be somewhere else, wandering around everywhere exept near his girl!

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sinner guys are available at ecery end of this world nn i guess an average lokking gal may easily find 1.

soo who cares if U leaves her or not.