ssorry !! i got emotional in my last reply .
to suggest u ! i would say if he knew that u were just a frnd , how could he say some thing like that.
u see u said that he knew u were never willing to get together with him. so he does not have any reason to refuse u now. if things were not clear to him in the beginning then thats a problem.
so now u should not disgrace urself running after him and take a break . as some body has replied u before , things do not seem clear when u r under water of love . may be if u avoid him for some time then u'll realise the exect situation.
and dont degrade urself saying u dont deserve some one. and may be he does not deserve u or may be he had been using u.
so take a break and come out of this illusion of GOD for saken love.
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*Originally posted by B|iss: *
Thank you for trying to help me out..firstly im a girl..im 18..and the guy is a few years older..i really like him..its been only two months since weve been dating..and no we have not had sex..and i dont think we ever will..until we get married..but thats not the issue..i feel that maybe if i do end it or take a break from this relationship..we'll never get back together..and hes an amzing guy..thats why i feel scared in losing him..i just wish he felt for me the way i feel for him..i hope you guys understand what im trying say..
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Why dont you think you are an amazing girl and he needs to value you? And if he doesnt then kick him out of your way. You will find another one better then him.
One thing is for sure when a person falls in love first time he/shecan never forget it. the second love is to pass time or forget the past. it is never serious and can breakup with out a reason. because the person who find another person to love after the first one actually tries to find similarity in other person and try to avoid what caused the first love to fall apart it is difficult to start from the begaining. Love is like a essen of rose never dies. and can never be replaced so you need to move on this is never gona work out there will always be a question like this.
the thing is after speaking to him yesterday night..i realized that i want something to happen..which isnt meant to be..he isnt even interested in me that way..and hes just very sweet..i just like him too much..but i feel that i cant have something that doesnt belong to me.and he doesnt..really..i understand that he wants to meet someone that he loves completely and shares the same interests and all..and what we had was amazing maybe not for him..but it was special for me..maybe i could think of it as a wonderful dream that will never come true..and thats what i have to live with..so though its going to be hard for me..ill just have to accept the fact that we will just have to be friends and thats it..i just wish i colud have tried to be the one..while we were going out..the thing was i was going through a few family problems..and so i wasnt myself..i was clingy..needy..emotional..and i didnt give him any reason as to why i was..and that might have drawn him away from me..but whats done is done..and hes changed and i have to live with it..
Whatever the case, this doesn't sound like a relationship which is going anywhere. Based on what you say, it probably makes sense for both of you to split and look elsewhere for what you want in life.
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