This is my first post (oh what the hell like you care hehe)
Well I really dont know what to do.
See, I am totally in love with my best friend (he is a male) I can’t live without him. I know him for like 1,5 years now, and I tried so hard to forget about feeling anything more than friendship, but it doesn’t work. I can’t imagine me being with someone else than him.
The problem is he can’t forget his ex girlfriend, and he can’t imagine himself being with someone else than her! But she doesn’t even care, she calls him when she’s in the mood to talk to him and ignores him for weeks if she doesn’t want to talk. He wants her back, but I think she is just playing games with him. I want him, but he told me it’s better if we just stay friends.
Once we got very close, but he didn’t want me to be his girlfriend because he can’t forget his ex girlfriend. I don’t know how to make him give me just one chance.
Other girls like him too, and now I am afraid what if he will like one of them, because of their sweet talks. Because when they talk to him like that, he he tells me what they say and I get jealouse. I don’t tell him that though, but I can tell that he doesn’t mind those girls talking like that. I don’t talk too sweet to him because I dont want him to think later on that he would only like me for those sweet words.
I never loved someone like this before, and I only want to be with him. When I don’t talk to him I get all crazy, when he’s down, I feel down too, and when we argue, I start to cry.
I don’t wanna loose him, what should I do???
Thanks for your reply Praetextatus and for your welcome :)
Well you know the girl WAS out of his life till she heard that I was close with him and she got back into his life. But he doesn't see that she came back in his life because we were getting close, but because she misses him too. Now he doesn't want to forget her, and I don't what to do to make him forget her..... I get so sick of all this.
ahh, sorry dont be offended at the laughing. Its more laughing at the whole ****ed up situation.
Ive been in love with, well we used to be really close-were best friends-we’ve grown apart now, for 6 years now. He never felt about me the way I did him.
Its not worth it. Its not worth the heartache, its not worth the trouble, all of it.
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